Neil Jacobstein is a mediaX Distinguished Visiting Scholar. He studies how the exponentially increasing velocity and complexity of technology requires augmented decision making in industry and government. He was a Senior Research Fellow in the Reuters Digital Vision Program at Stanford University. Jacobstein Chairs the AI and Robotics Track at Singularity University, headquartered at NASA Research Park. He is a past President of Singularity University. In this highlight version of his 50 minute talk, Neil expresses the need to get beyond the polarized scenarios of AI Driven Gloom and Doom, or AI Nirvana, and come to the adult conversation that AI Involves Tradeoffs.